STYLE

While school came relatively easy to me, life post-high school graduation did not.

I graduated at seventeen, without the first clue as to what to do with the rest of my life. I had hobbies & interests growing up, of course—primarily writing—but I hadn’t the first idea how to turn that into a career. At the time, I thought the only degrees available to pursue for writers were either Journalism or English and I wasn’t interested in either option. After working on the school newspaper, I knew I didn’t want to be a journalist, chasing down leads or making edits & layouts; and beyond teaching, I didn’t know what other opportunities an English degree could even provide. Like a lot of kids, I played “Teacher” as a child, although I wasn’t overly keen on the idea of being a teacher—particularly because, having had teachers in my family, I knew how overworked, under-appreciated and extremely underpaid the profession is in the United States. All I knew for certain was that I wanted to write stories that connected people to the past. I wanted to show readers that, although it might be ancient history to us, it’s still relevant to today’s world and still influences us and our decisions.

Move over, Soft Girl Summer, there’s a new sister in town!

Autumn has a way of pulling us back into rhythm. It’s filled with slower, darker mornings, crisp evening air, warm drinks, and rituals that make everyday life feel softer and more intentional. This season is all about balance: the comfort of home mixed with little adventures that bring joy and connection.

To help you savor it all, I put together the ultimate cozy girl autumn checklist. From small comforts like adding cinnamon to your coffee and painting your nails in a fall hue, to bigger seasonal moments like lighting a bonfire, visiting the library, or taking a scenic drive, this list is meant to inspire you to embrace the season in its fullest.

Consider it your invitation to create cozy habits, romanticize the ordinary, and welcome autumn with open arms.