Move over, Soft Girl Summer, there’s a new sister in town!

Autumn has a way of pulling us back into rhythm. It’s filled with slower, darker mornings, crisp evening air, warm drinks, and rituals that make everyday life feel softer and more intentional. This season is all about balance: the comfort of home mixed with little adventures that bring joy and connection.

To help you savor it all, I put together the ultimate cozy girl autumn checklist. From small comforts like adding cinnamon to your coffee and painting your nails in a fall hue, to bigger seasonal moments like lighting a bonfire, visiting the library, or taking a scenic drive, this list is meant to inspire you to embrace the season in its fullest.

Consider it your invitation to create cozy habits, romanticize the ordinary, and welcome autumn with open arms.

Halloween has always been my favorite holiday. Probably because autumn is by far my favorite season when everything feels crisp and cool. But even as a child, it wasn’t because of the candy or the costumes, although I’ve always loved the chance to dress up and play a part for an evening. What really drew me in, is the deeper meaning the season carries. Long before Halloween became what it is now, this time of year marked Samhain, the ancient Celtic festival when the veil between worlds was believed to grow thin.

I’ve always been a planner. I like knowing what comes next and stacking habits that support my day. (I blame my fixed Leo sign for this.) But over time, I noticed that checking off my to-do list left me bored, frustrated, and resentful of my own schedule, especially when I didn’t get everything done. That’s when I started noticing the difference between routine and ritual.